> Who are most people?

Users of the software, for whom I'm packaging stuff.  I get the
impression some people don't think they're very relevant, and I
increasingly come across things which make life hard supporting them.

> Nobody is changing the name of the software.

As far as a user is concerned, you are.

> That is entirely under the control of upstream.

Who I think deserve respect for their chosen names as far as
possible/reasonable, even if they're not (former) colleagues.

> We're discussing how it is represented in
> the Fedora repository.
> That is the purview of the Fedora project, not upstream.

And clearly there isn't agreement in Fedora, even on what the guidelines
actually say, which was my point.