That last one was meant to quell this seemingly infinite argument- not to inflame. I just want it over. For as long as I've known apt, this has been a perennial issue that has been talked to death.
I had intended to send it off list to meet these goals, (as you can tell by the attachment, which is a no-no here) but obviously I got distracted before sending it, and managed to plop it out here. Axell, I wasn't trying to air dirty laundry in public; I apologize.
It's humbling to know one's foot never gets so big that it can't still fit in one's mouth.