KDE 4.3 Dolphin connection to ssh host is broken

[paul s]

>> I'd recommend not using fish. sftp is the real protocol. fish is 

i've always used fish, as a for instance, sftp doesn't read my 
.ssh/config file...

how do you connect to servers through sftp which use different ports for 
ssh? e.g. 192.168.1.1:4444 --> 192.168.1.2:22 i've been looking around 
but haven't really found a viable solution.

cheers
paul