An apology is required from me
Eddie G.O'Connor Jr-I
eoconnor25 at gmail.com
Sun Jun 24 00:15:24 UTC 2012
On 06/23/2012 11:30 AM, Daniel wrote:
> On 06/23/2012 07:59 AM, Mike Wohlgemuth wrote:
>
>> Someone claimed that they found gnome bashing tiresome. Your response
>> was they should complain to the Gnome developers.
>
> No, that wasn't my response.
>
> If one were going to kill a snake, then I would indeed _suggest_
> smashing its head rather than its tail, but all that presupposes that
> one should try to kill the snake.
>
>> It seemed sort of
>> analogous to ordering a pizza in a restaurant and realizing it has
>> anchovies on it. You hate anchovies, but it was clearly labeled as
>> coming with anchovies. It seems at this point you could choose to
>> take the anchovies off and eat the rest of the pizza. Or you could
>> talk to the wait staff about resolving the issue. Or you could
>> complain loudly to all the other patrons, and when the other patrons
>> express displeasure with your actions, tell them that it is really the
>> restaurant's fault.
>
> Well, here's a rather better analogy, reworking yours:
>
> We have a bunch of people who have been going to a pizza restaurant
> for some years. And they find the pizza to be quite excellent. Then,
> suddenly, it is changed. The old sort of pizza is removed from the
> menu, and it is replaced with a new one that a contingent of
> "regulars" loathe. So _they_ -- not just one hypothetical patron but
> a bloc of them -- begin complaining not only to the staff, but on
> Yelp! but in letters-to-the-editor. And people who want to read
> _different_ letters-to-the-editor become annoyed, and start
> complaining about the complaining.
>
> (Note: You don't have to read this mailing list to use Gnome, nor to
> Fedora with or without Gnome. Analogically speaking, the complaining
> is _not_ in the restaurant.)
>
> Of course, the restaurant has a right to change its offerings, but the
> complainers have a right to complain. And the people complaining
> about the complaining -- well, shouldn't they know what they got
> themselves in for in reading other people's comments?
>
> One answer to the people who don't like the pizza is to tell them to
> go somewhere else (even if there's no other pizza place in town). One
> answer to the people who don't like the complaints about the pizza is
> to tell them to stop reading Yelp! and the letters-to-the-editor (even
> if there's nothing else to read). And these answers aren't either/or;
> one could embrace each.
>
> And one could embrace both of these answers, while suggesting that
> someone complaining about the complaining might do better to try to
> smash the head of a snake than to attempt to stomp on its tail.
>
>> This third option is what I find astonishingly arrogant.
>
> Well, your attempts to interpret my psychology are grossly incompetent.
Stunned silence..#headspinnig!
You my friend would give Dr. Sigmund Freud chills at night and
goosebumps!.....LoL!
EGO II
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