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[Bruno Wolff III]

On Thu, Mar 20, 2014 at 12:41:35 -0400,
   R P Herrold <herrold at owlriver.com> wrote:
>
>but if if one can post but are not subscribed to a side list
>and the thread takes off there, a poster never sees it without
>wallowing through the archive (a pull vs push method)

Not if people reply all. Then the sender's followup-to header will say 
to copy them if they need a copy or the list if they don't.